What I can understand from my experience, is like being aware of eachothers wounds and what triggers it can appear, I learn the psychology about shadow or dark side, some of it are like wounds that needs to be dealt with, we tend to be unable to handle ourselves hence we haven’t yet capable to deal with others, or our partner’s problems/inner problems. This makes me realise things in deeper way, it makes me comprehend how to have compassion to others, coming from my self-compassion, I began to learn how to be compassionate to others, I want to make my loved ones or even strangers and hateful or wounded people know that they are loved despite their inner troubles, their souls still need to be respected despite the atrocious thoughts they might have or the actions/mistakes they might have done, this is a hard task. And this is what I understand as well from Bible Verse Ephesians 6:12, KJV: “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” This verse is a good and important reminder for us all humans that we are not againts eachothers, but the negative energy that attacks individuals can lead to miscommunication and destructions and hatredness and cause separations, and how God teaches us to love our enemies (humans/others or ourselves), it means that we can overcome the harsh difficuties of life through understanding and discernment and sharing love to one another without any judgements. I dont mean to endure pain in a foolish way when your mental well being is being wholefully neglected, its important to have balance. But these things make me aware to not be easily offended and then be childish, but be mature in acknowledging what is really going on, and be a big hearted person with wise perspective, and intuitively sense in what kind of states the other person’s currently have been feeling.
Showing compassion and be a good listener to others pain, heals so much of the other person’s heart too… It’s gonna be hard. But if we can be aware, we won’t be easily triggered or offended but move through compassionate deep love for the other person’s soul, and this can heal us all, healing eachother between partners.
And btw, this video I shared to you mostly about how to understand depression in a partner or spouse, but this actually can be applied to any kind of situations because it teaches us humanity, it’s also good to understand that we all need help.
(My Spouse is Depressed : Loving a Depressed Man)
https://youtu.be/iYnnfbNNEL0
Besides that, I found out how creepy it is that when I wrote the bible verse numbers, it has a resonating message to the Bible Verse. The verse numbers automatically became the minutes for the YouTube vid, so try click it and watch. This is the message content: “More harm than good in this world”🙏🏻 yes indeed, that’s the dark principalities of this world, the Devil who wants to wreak havoc and devour humans souls, causing chaos between humans and between humans to God.
Anyone who reads this, blessings for you. If you have difficulties with another person or something, remember that you’re loved and the person who is conflicted too also loved, so we all need to heal and hopefully there wont be any disruptive fighs or negative arguments that only leads to destruction. Forgive yourself and forgive others too, pray for ourselves and other’s well being. Because we are not coming from a place of hate. So lets not spreading hate but love, when you can do this even to hateful people, this shows a proof that YOU’RE A RESILIENT BRAVE FIERCE SOUL FROM A PLACE OF LOVE AND WISDOM (GOD)
Written by Serpent